How i met your mother and how i met my lover : an article about true Love , rebound and moving on .

 

By : Seif Mohamed 

One of the beautiful things in “himym “ that he discussed a very important and nice theory 

And actually i like to think of it as a fact more than a theory 

And this fact is 

That we can love again but we still have a bit of love for someone else in our hearts  

Some of that pure love that may never die because it was honest, sincere  and  true 

But that does mean that we can’t love someone else 

Or the love that we are giving now to  our lover is faked 

And  why I’m saying that 

Is that we all know that “ted”

Truly loved robin at first sight 

And he tried to be with her and he actually succeeded then they broke up then they got  back  together the broke up again in one of the most toxic manners and ways but  there  between all the toxicity he really loves here and she really loved him but they were foolish and incapable to handle and express there emotions in the right and healthy manners so they haven’t end up  together 

and even though ted had a lot o rebound relationships after her and even before there relationship when he was trying to move on from the fact that they can not be together  cuz at first she didn’t want to , but in  all those relationships he knew that he is not serious he is just passing time 

And robin  is his only love and if she called him and told him come and be with me again even if he was with the rebound girl he would have left every thing  to go to her and wen know something similar happened when he left Victoria for her because even hey may  have had a close feeling to love with Victoria but he never really did 

It have always been Robin 

But when he met Tracy  he knew for sure that he finally found him self a soulmate  a lover and the mother of his children 

He truly loved her and adored her 

And he he finally moved on from Robin and he was ready to spend the eternity  with Tracy but deep inside him somewhere Robin was still there as we said and stated earlier  In our theory 

And the proof of this point  is what happened in the end of the series and we all know what happened 

So in conclusion 

You will fall in love deeply but life gets in your way and take them from you and you will have a hard time forgetting the memories and trying to hang out to any little hope but will finally know that you have to move on and believe you will move one 

And you will love again , 

Maybe that first love may never die but when  you  love again you will give all you love and sincere  feelings , all your care and loyalty and literally all of you . 

But believe me when it tell you 

“True love never dies ”